You're both bored of each other. You've been together so long that nothing is new or exciting anymore. She reads romance, talks to other men, or whatever. You on the other hand, found something new you prefer, me. It's never boring with me, its brought back that spark of excitement you haven't felt in so long. I'm sure you could try having sex with her, but why would you when you could stroke for me instead?

You're both bored of each other. You've been together so long that nothing is new or exciting anymore. She reads romance, talks to other men, or whatever. You on the other hand, found something new you prefer, me. It's never boring with me, its brought back that spark of excitement you haven't felt in so long. I'm sure you could try having sex with her, but why would you when you could stroke for me instead?