Using a soft-spoken, soothing voice, I explain to this shrunken man what has happened to him...and what is going to happen. I tell him that I am going to him... very... slowly... under my ass. He can hush now, because there's no hope. Shhhh. I put him flat on his back before sitting on him. I tell him to hush over and over, reminding him that his pleas for help and mercy will go nowhere.