I deserve all of the attention and focus. I shouldn't have to share with someone else. I don't care about other people or what they want. I will not sit idly by while someone puts me on the back burner! When I snap my fingers YOU HAD BETTER BE THERE, not hear excuses. This is why married men are so much harder to deal with. You have someone looking at everything, scrutinizing everything. It is an extra set of eyes that makes this harder to hide. If she is looking at your finances and wonders what you are up to it means I don't get as much money or attention. You could always tell your wife ...

I deserve all of the attention and focus. I shouldn't have to share with someone else. I don't care about other people or what they want. I will not sit idly by while someone puts me on the back burner! When I snap my fingers YOU HAD BETTER BE THERE, not hear excuses. This is why married men are so much harder to deal with. You have someone looking at everything, scrutinizing everything. It is an extra set of eyes that makes this harder to hide. If she is looking at your finances and wonders what you are up to it means I don't get as much money or attention. You could always tell your wife so I get everything I want and no one has to hide. Or you can try to hide it, but then she goes snooping and she will find out anyway. No matter what you do or what problems come from it it is not a Goddess JessiBelle problem, it is a YOU problem. You need to figure it out because I am not going to deal with this!