We have a date night planned at an elegant restaurant and I need a new dress for the evening. I'm ready to go shopping but you seem to be too tired and want to stay home. I'm already dressed and waiting so I'm a bit annoyed that you're slowing us down, but now you apparently have an issue with the outfit I chose to wear to the mall. I quickly blow that off and calm down a bit, recognizing how tired you must be for how hard you've been working lately. I've been working hard too, but that's why we both deserve this date night.

I decide to compromise and let you stay home while I run ...

We have a date night planned at an elegant restaurant and I need a new dress for the evening. I'm ready to go shopping but you seem to be too tired and want to stay home. I'm already dressed and waiting so I'm a bit annoyed that you're slowing us down, but now you apparently have an issue with the outfit I chose to wear to the mall. I quickly blow that off and calm down a bit, recognizing how tired you must be for how hard you've been working lately. I've been working hard too, but that's why we both deserve this date night.

I decide to compromise and let you stay home while I run out to pick up my dress for tonight, and all I need is for you to transfer some money over to pay for it. Send plenty, because I want to be turning heads, don't you? While you're at it, I think a new dress deserves new heels too. And a purse to match as well.

You can't help but give me more and more to spoil myself while you relax at home. It's the least you can do since you're not coming out with me, but just think of how happy I'll be buying all these new gifts for our special time tonight! You might as well just transfer extra just in case I find something else we might both enjoy. Surely you wouldn't deny me, I mean us, that pleasure...