Can we talk? I'm really sorry for getting angry earlier. It was wrong of me. I asked you to put lotion on my back at the pool and you just did as you were told. It wasn't your fault that your body reacted in a natural way. I was just taken by surprise when I saw it there, right in front of me, that's all. I don't want you to feel embarrassed. It's my fault. I've allowed the lines to be blurred between us and the things we used to do, well, they're just not appropriate for a stepmother and stepson anymore. Perhaps we need to establish boundaries from now on?

Can we talk? I'm really sorry for getting angry earlier. It was wrong of me. I asked you to put lotion on my back at the pool and you just did as you were told. It wasn't your fault that your body reacted in a natural way. I was just taken by surprise when I saw it there, right in front of me, that's all. I don't want you to feel embarrassed. It's my fault. I've allowed the lines to be blurred between us and the things we used to do, well, they're just not appropriate for a stepmother and stepson anymore. Perhaps we need to establish boundaries from now on?